Heal Your Way Forward

Addiction to Whiteness Part 2

Perfectionism Is a Cage with Pretty Walls

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Heal Your Way Forward
Sep 17, 2025
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Perfectionism Is a Cage with Pretty Walls

I used to think being good would keep me safe.

If I could just be good enough…
Say it right enough…
Clean up fast enough after I made a mistake…
Then maybe the harm would bypass me.
Maybe I could avoid the conflict.
Maybe I’d get to belong.

But here’s the truth: I was addicted to perfectionism.

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